AIMS OF THE ACTIVITY |
The objective of the card is to make to emerge in reflexive way the bond that is among his/her own communicative styles to forehead of people you contest different and to be able to reflect on the emotions that we feel the results and the effectiveness of our styles |
DESCRIPTION / METHODOLOGY |
This is the card to use and after having administered he/she wonders her/it to each of his/her own choice and he/she wonders if he/she wants to deduce her/it particularly trying to make to emerge the bond that is among strategies you contest and chosen personal seeing if they exist then of the recurrences and of the personal scripts and automatisms or if and how much we choose in liberty our strategies.
Handout |
SUGGESTED TIMING |
From 45 to the 60 minutes in base to the number of the participants included debriefing |
MATERIAL AND RESOURCES NEEDED |
COMPETENCES DEVELOPED |
Styles of communication, assertive communication
Bonds among contest strategies and communicative attitudes |
GUIDELINES FOR ASSESSMENT |
Handout
That time that in the job I have had a passive attitude
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Which is it the emotion and the feeling that I have tried?
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What led me to this behaviour? What was my strategy, what I wanted to avoid or achieve?
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In which context of group, in presence of which people you/he/she has happened this episode?
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That time that in the job I have had a passive attitude
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Which is it the emotion and the feeling that I have tried?
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What led me to this behaviour? What was my strategy, what I wanted to avoid or achieve?
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Which has the result of this attitude been?
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That time that in the job I have had an aggressive attitude…
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Which is it the emotion and the feeling that I have tried?
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What led me to this behaviour? What was my strategy, what I wanted to avoid or achieve?
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In which context of group, in presence of which people you/he/she has happened this episode?
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Which has been the result of this attitude?
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That time that in the job I have had an assertive attitude
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Which is it the emotion and the feeling that I have tried?
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What led me to this behaviour? What was my strategy, what I wanted to avoid or achieve? __________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________
In which context of group, in presence of which people you/he/she has happened this episode?
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Which has been the result of this attitude?
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